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Connecting With Loved Ones

Mediumship, is the ability to connect with persons who have crossed over, can be both a comforting and profoundly moving experience. Whether you’re just curious or have already sensed that something or someone is around, there’s a whole world to explore when it comes to connecting with the other side. Let’s look into the many ways you can tap into this beautiful, spiritual gift and understand when your loved ones are showing their presence to you from subtle signs.

What Is Mediumship?

Mediumship is the ability to communicate with those who have passed on. Mediums act as a bridge, or “middle person,” between the physical world and the spiritual realm. You don't have to be a professional medium to sense or connect with loved ones; many people experience spontaneous moments of contact from those on the other side. It’s a natural, spiritual ability that we all can tune into with a bit of openness and practice.

How Does Mediumship Work?

Mediumship works on the principle that our souls are eternal. When a person passes away, their physical body is gone, but their spirit continues to exist in a different form. Mediums can sense, hear, see, or feel these spirits and deliver messages from them. It’s like picking up a cosmic phone call from another dimension!

The experience can vary from person to person. Some mediums might feel a strong presence, hear a voice in their mind, or even receive visual impressions. The key is to be open, trust your intuition, and not to overthink it.

Signs That Loved Ones Are Around

Even if you’re not a practicing medium, loved ones can still send you signs that they’re around. These signs are often subtle but deeply personal. Here’s how you might notice their presence:

1. Dreams

One of the most common ways loved ones communicate is through dreams. If you’ve ever had a dream where a loved one appears and it feels different—calm, vivid, and real—it might just be more than a dream. Pay attention to what they say, how they make you feel, and the overall vibe of the dream.

2. Songs on the Radio

Ever have a song pop up on the radio that reminds you of someone who has passed? Maybe it was their favorite song, or the lyrics resonate with your memories of them. Spirits often use music to get our attention, and it's one of the easiest ways for them to send a little "hello."

3. Unusual Coincidences

Sometimes, things happen that seem way too perfect to be a coincidence. You might notice something like their favorite flower blooming right in front of you, or a random stranger mentioning their name. These are not random—they’re gentle nudges from the other side.

4. Numbers and Clocks

Have you ever looked at the clock and seen repeating numbers, like 11:11 or 3:33? This might be more than just a coincidence. Loved ones often use numbers to get your attention, especially if those numbers held meaning when they were alive. It’s like a little spiritual wink!

5. Finding Coins, Feathers, or Objects

If you keep finding feathers, coins, or small objects in odd places, it might be a sign. Spirits like to leave little tokens behind to let you know they’re thinking of you. Pay attention to where you find these objects—there might be a message there.

6. Feeling Their Presence

Sometimes, you just “know” someone is with you. You might feel a sudden sense of comfort or even a shift in the air. Trust these feelings; they’re often your loved ones stepping close to let you know you’re not alone.

7. Seeing Lights or Orbs

Many people report seeing orbs or flashes of light in photos or even with their naked eyes. These lights can be manifestations of spirits, especially if they appear in significant places or moments.

8. Smells and Scents

If you catch a familiar smell—maybe a whiff of your grandmother’s perfume or the scent of your father’s favorite cologne—it could be them. Smell is a powerful trigger for memory, and spirits often use it to make their presence known.

9. Pets Acting Strangely

Animals are incredibly sensitive to spiritual energy. If your cat starts staring at a corner or your dog suddenly barks at “nothing,” they might be reacting to a presence you can’t see.

10. Messages in Nature

Spirits can also communicate through nature. You might see a specific animal, like a bird or butterfly, repeatedly showing up in your life. It could be a sign that a loved one is trying to get your attention, especially if you asked for a sign!

How to Enhance Your Connection

If you want to take things further and develop your mediumship abilities, there are some simple practices you can do. Don’t worry—you don’t have to be a full-time medium to connect with those on the other side. These steps will help you tap into your intuition and open up to spiritual communication. I often encourage my clients to look for the simple signs or feelings, especially when you think of someone who has passed.

1. Meditation

Meditation is one of the best ways to clear your mind and tune into the spiritual realm. By quieting your thoughts, you can become more aware of subtle energies and messages. Start with just a few minutes a day, focusing on your breath. Over time, you'll notice your intuition becoming stronger.

2. Set an Intention

Before connecting with the other side, set a clear intention. Simply stating in your mind or out loud, “I am open to receiving messages from my loved ones,” creates a mental invitation for spirits to communicate with you.

3. Keep a Journal

Write down any experiences you have, from vivid dreams to strange coincidences. Keeping a journal helps you track patterns and can validate the signs you’re receiving. Over time, you'll likely see a clearer picture of how your loved ones are reaching out.

4. Use Tools

Some mediums use tools like tarot cards, pendulums, or crystals to help focus their energy and receive messages. These tools aren’t necessary, but they can be helpful if you feel a bit stuck. Pick what resonates with you and see if it aids your practice.

5. Ask for Signs

Don’t be afraid to ask for specific signs from your loved ones. It’s okay to say something like, “If you’re here, please show me a butterfly,” or “Let me hear our song on the radio.” Spirits are often more than happy to oblige if it helps you feel connected.

6. Trust Your Gut

When it comes to mediumship, trust your intuition. Sometimes, a message or a sign won’t make sense immediately, but trust that it will in time. Doubting yourself can block your ability to receive messages, so try to remain open, even if it feels a little strange at first.

7. Work with a Medium

If you’re having trouble connecting on your own, working with a professional medium can be a helpful step. A medium can help validate your experiences and even show you techniques for enhancing your own connection. Plus, they can provide insight and clarity when you need it.

8. Use Crystals for Mediumship

Certain crystals can help strengthen your connection to the spirit world. Amethyst, selenite, and clear quartz are fantastic for opening up spiritual channels. You can hold them during meditation or place them around your home to amplify the energy.

9. Be Patient

Connecting with the other side can take time. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t hear or feel anything right away. Keep practicing, stay open, and trust that your loved ones are reaching out, even if it’s subtle.

10. Release Fear

One of the biggest blocks to mediumship is fear or doubt. It’s natural to feel a little apprehensive, especially if this is all new to you. But remember, your loved ones are trying to bring comfort and love, not fear. Release any worries you have about connecting, and approach it with an open heart.

How to Protect Your Energy

As you begin connecting more with the other side, it’s important to protect your energy. Opening up spiritually can sometimes make you feel more sensitive to both good and bad vibes. Here are a few ways to keep yourself grounded and safe:

  • Visualize a White Light: Before any spiritual work, imagine yourself surrounded by a protective bubble of white light. This simple visualization can help keep you safe from unwanted energies. Say a player and ask to connect to a loved one.

  • Ground Yourself: Spend time in nature, walk barefoot on the grass, or hold grounding crystals like black tourmaline or hematite. Grounding helps keep you connected to the Earth while exploring the spiritual realm.

  • Use Protection Crystals: Crystals like black obsidian, smoky quartz, and labradorite can help shield your energy. Keep them nearby during mediumship work or carry one in your pocket for extra protection.

  • Set Boundaries: If you ever feel overwhelmed by spiritual energy, it’s okay to set boundaries. You can say something like, “I am not open to receiving messages right now,” or “I only allow love and light to connect with me.” Spirits will respect your wishes.

  • Dont Drink Alcohol or do Drugs: Its important you keep your senses clear and clean when opening up. Stay Natural and healthy

Final Thoughts on Mediumship

Mediumship is a beautiful, powerful way to connect with loved ones who have passed on. It’s about love, healing, and continuing relationships that go beyond the physical world. By practicing your connection, staying open, and embracing the signs that come through, you’ll find that your loved ones are never far away.

So go ahead—open your heart and your mind to the magic of mediumship. Your loved ones are just a thought away!