Mediumship is about connecting to the other side. The veil that exists between the psychical world and spirit is hard to penetrate. The reason is, here in the physical world our vibration or frequency is heaver and slowly than on spirits side. This means that we have to raise our vibration and they have to lower their for us to connect with them.
Often when I am starting a reading or even a day before when the booking is made, the clients grandma or father will come through wanting to let love ones know they are safe. It is amazing how spirit and our love ones get messages through. We can all hear little messages or signals from the other side if we sit still and listen and take notice. Often a bird tapping on the window, coins suddenly appearing at your feet, photos knocked down, lights and electricals switching on and of, is a indication of them trying to get our attention..
It usually takes many years for mediums to truly develop and get clear messages from the other side. My own journey is about working towards and developing into a medium to help others grieving about lost love ones. It is amazing the heavy cloud lifted off many of my clients when a loved one comes through. It makes the job thoroughly worthwhile helping people understand death here is a new beginning in the spirit world. Spirit loves humor and often lift the atmosphere and messages with laughter and messages from there.
So while I cant promise your love one will come through in a psychic reading or even you will get a message from the other side, most times someone from your family in spirit will come knocking.